As a child by parents raised me with a strict set of values and belief system. If you have met anyone in my family you know that we are loud,
opinionated, and strong willed. Over the years I have taken pride in these three
attributes but I have also learned that there is a time and a place for each of them.
I am a public school teacher and I love my job! However, being a teacher/coach also means that my religious and
political views have to take somewhat of a back seat. Meaning I can't openly say what political party I am or that I am a Christian. Now, I am pretty sure that the students know both of these but I have never said it point blank.
Here is where I am going to rant a little bit! Although I am a teacher/coach my number 1 priority is to be a Mom and Wife! I take a great amount of pride and honor in being Savannah's mom and Andy's wife.
When Andy and I got married we always talked about having 3-4 children. I always knew I wanted to be a mom but I also knew that I was called to teach. This meant that I would probably not be a stay at home mom. I am just not the type of girl to stay home...just ask me my weekly schedule! Well, when Savannah was born and I went back to work I enjoyed it but I also hated not being with her. The option to stay home was not one due to finances and other things. But as I began the process of daycare and watching Savannah learn and grow, I realized that she LOVED the interaction with other kids. In fact, she seems to think that she is a lot older than she actually is.
With that being said. I have a lot of friends that are stay at home moms and I think it is awesome. I believe that it is a
privilege to be able to stay home with your babies and it is for some women and not for others. It is totally up to the Mom and her family.
Okay let's face it we all have different opinions about raising a child,
disciplining a child, being green, etc. I welcome the difference of opinions and I am never bothered when someone tells me something that they are doing or that they feel is right for their body or child. To the women that want a natural birth I say "Go for it" and "More power to you." Me on the other hand I will take the epidural! :) To those that say they want to do all natural foods or breast feed..."Great, it's your body and its your child." I however, chose not to breast feed and I am not really all that concerned with natural food vs. the others. WE ALL HAVE OPINIONS and that is what makes us all unique and different.
BUT, to tell me that my child is always sick because she is in daycare is not right! To tell me that I am letting someone else raise my child is not right! To tell me that because I don't do this or I do that will effect my child later is not right! I AM SAVANNAH'S MOM and ANDY IS HER FATHER! We have her best interests at heart and we are trying to raise her the way our parents raised us and to raise her up to be a follower of Jesus!
Yes, has Savannah gotten sick this year. Yes, have we missed days because of her illness. Yes, has it all been tests! But seriously...she is a baby...they get sick...whether they are in daycare or at home!
Andy and I have 4 goals that we set as parents
1. That our home is centered around Jesus and that Jesus will become their Lord and Savior
2. To know that Daddy and Mommy are in love with each other and to show them what a Christ centered relationship looks like
3. Raise our children to know right from wrong and how to act in the world (I will be honest that I am scared about the world that they will grow up in)
4. To want to come home when they grow up and leave
With all of this being said...I hope I didn't offend anyone! I love talking to women about their views and the different things they do as a Mom. I learn something new all the time but please don't tell me I am doing something wrong. I am learning just like everyone else on what works and what doesn't.
